The Lockdown Drill

My children deal with many things that I did not have growing up. Social media, cameras in everyone's pockets, nothing ever being deleted, and so on...I point these things out often. I sometimes apologize that they have to grow up with these added pressures. I genuinely feel bad for them that it seems tougher and tougher to enjoy being a kid. They lose their innocence so quickly.

Today was a brutal reminder of how different it is for them—lockdown drill day for my high schoolers. I have a freshman this year, so I wanted to make sure he wasn't caught off guard, so I reminded them as they left for school. I asked my older kids to explain how it would be handled to my freshman. I got the usual, Mom, it's not a big deal. Which, in some ways, makes it even sadder to me. This is their life. They see this as just part of their day. They have been through lockdowns that ended up being hoaxes. They have access to news stories, so they are aware of the reality of why lockdowns are needed.

Much to their dismay, anytime the subject comes up, I take the opportunity to remind them of three key points. 1. This is nothing to joke about. Be cooperative with your teachers and school administration. No one likes that this is a necessary part of school procedures. 2. If there is a time when it is not a drill and you need to get out of the building, don't worry about your phone or any possessions. We have a meeting place where I will find them. Just go. 3. Most importantly. If you see anything on social media or hear anything, even if you think it is a hoax, report it to a trusted adult. If you don't feel comfortable going to school administration, please tell me.

We know, Mom. I know you do, kids. And I am sorry, you know.